HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY 2008
Some of the articles and sermons I have heard on Mother’s Day would give one the idea that to become a mother is to become a saint.
We all would agree there are saintly mothers and there are self centered, even criminal mothers. Most of us as mothers find our place somewhere in between.
In spite of the seemingly endless nausea and misery of pregnancy and pain of childbirth, the incredible love that we have for that helpless and amazingly beautiful baby when it is finally born is awesome. There is something about motherhood that tends to bring out the best in most of us.
Most of us as adults have an emotional attachment and love for our mother. In cases where the mother has such personal problems as to neglect, abuse or abandon the child there is always unbelievable sorrow.
Just the thought of “mother” brings about great emotion in many of us. I remember one Saturday before Mothers Day when I was sitting in the sanctuary with our church music director. We were discussing the music for the next day and got into conversation about some of the old Mother’s Day hymns. She mentioned two old gospel songs, “That Silver Haired Mother of Mine” and “If I Could Hear My Mother Pray Again.” We both choked up.
I think all of us come to Mother’s Day thinking about our own mother and not about some honor due us if we also happen to be a mother.
It seems to me that mother love is more nearly like God’s love…unselfish love…agape love, than any other human love. Mother seems to see possibilities in us that other people seem not to notice. Just as God sees possibilities in us that we do not see in ourselves and others fail to see.
Charles Swindoll’s book entitled, Living Beyond The Daily Grind has a chapter, The Grind of Motherhood. Is there any one of us who will not agree that in addition to the many joys of motherhood and the endless rewards, motherhood is a four letter word called “Work.” Swindoll puts it this way; “the daily mounds of laundry, ironing, folding, cleaning , cooking, car pooling, being a referee, a coach, and encourager, a counselor, a cop, staying pretty, remaining tactful, loveable, compassionate, cheerful, responsible, balanced and sane…”
My daughter, Deborah Lewis wrote a book in 1990, later put out in paperback which I think is one of the best on the subject of Motherhood Stress. On the cover is a woman stretched out across two mountain peaks, with children walking across her, and the sub title is “Finding Encouragement in the Ultimate Helping Profession.” Motherhood is the ultimate helping profession and parents are encouraged to realize the importance of the job.
I was in my early fifties when my mother died at age 88. Even though I had a husband and seven children, I will never forget the sense of loneliness and loss I felt to realize my mother was no longer in my world.
My mother had a philosophy of life as a Christian, not to worry about things that “could not be helped†and to take each day as a new beginning. In her honor, I want to include :
A BALLAD FOR MY MOTHER
1. My mother grew old. . . had lines etched in her face
Worked hard all her life. . . with uncommon grace
She lived by the Bible. . . Each day and each mile.
She taught me her secret. . . of life with a smile.
Refrain: She said. . . Today is the first day. Of the rest of your life.
Don’t borrow trouble, With yesterday’s strife.
Take time. . . Smell the flowers.
It makes life worth while
Then pick up each new day.
With love and a smile!
2. Widowed while young. . . Mama worked in the mill.
Washed on a scrub-board. . . Brought wood up a hill.
She sang as she labored… to stay out of debt ,
She taught me a lesson. . . I’ll never forget.
Refrain: She said. . . Today is the first day. Of the rest of your life.
Don’t borrow trouble, With yesterday’s strife.
Take time. . . smell the flowers.
It makes life worth while .
Pick up each new day With love and a smile!
3. One day I said, Mama,. . . Your life has been hard .
You’ve buried two babies. . . Out in the church yard.
You’ve known all the heartache of struggling for bread,
She smiled through her tears and these words she said:
Refrain: She said. . . Today is the first day, Of the rest of your life.
Don’t borrow trouble, With yesterday’s strife.
Take time. . . smell the flowers.
It makes life worth while.
Pick up each new day. With love and a smile!
Her old fashioned teacakes? We ate the last crumb!
Her old fashioned flowers? She had a green thumb!
She lived by the Bible. . . Each day and each mile.
She taught me her secret. . . of life with a smile.
~Ruth Baird Shaw~
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